Most people walk into a job interview thinking: I have to prove myself. True. But the interview goes both ways. You're being evaluated, and you're evaluating them. The question is whether you're asking the right questions to understand what you're walking into.
Toxic leadership rarely reveals itself openly in an interview. It often hides behind answers that initially sound like strong leadership. But if you know what to look for, you can spot the signals.
The dead-fish question: a true story
I once asked a leadership candidate this question. He laughed. Briefly. Then he answered, and his response revealed more than any standard interview question could have.
His answer: He would call a technician and have everyone leave the room. Problem solved.
What the question tests: In an unexpected situation, does this person think about the team first? Do they look for the source of the problem before reacting? Do they think beyond the obvious?
A strong answer might have been: “First, I'd make sure everyone in the room is safe. Then I'd try to identify the source of the problem. Is it coming through the ventilation system? Is anyone hurt? After that: call the appropriate professionals, secure the room, and inform the team.” Team first. Cause second. Solution third.
Unexpected questions make it harder to fall back on rehearsed answers. That's precisely why they can reveal patterns in how someone thinks and reacts.
Weak answer
Laugh. React superficially. Give the most obvious answer without thinking it through. Ignore the team. Make no attempt to identify the cause.
Strong answer
Pause briefly. Think in a structured way: safety → cause → solution → communication. Put the team first.
10 questions that can expose toxic leadership
What body language can tell you
Don't just listen to the answers. Pay attention to what changes during the conversation. A single gesture proves very little. What becomes interesting are patterns, shifts, and moments when someone's words, tone, and body language don't align.
How does the person respond to unexpected questions? Do they take a moment to think, or immediately produce a polished response? Does their posture change when the questions become more critical? Do they start looking away more often, change their tone, or create more physical distance?
When a question becomes uncomfortable, do they change the subject or suddenly become vague? Is there a noticeable gap between what they're saying and how they're saying it? No single signal gives you a verdict. But several changes in context can be a reason to ask another question.
“When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.” — Maya Angelou
A job interview isn't a one-way test. Both sides are gathering information and making a decision. The questions you ask therefore matter just as much as the answers you receive.
Use the time. Ask about mistakes, criticism, dissent, failed projects, and difficult truths. And pay attention not only to what someone says, but to how they say it.
Sometimes dead fish falling from the ceiling can tell you more about a leader than an entire résumé.
Sources: Maya Angelou, as quoted by Oprah Winfrey, When People Show You Who They Are, Believe Them (oprah.com).
Published June 2026